Love is great, and my relationship is great.
But I want other girls to realize that a relationship isn’t the only great feeling in the world. Culture pushes the family aesthetic on everybody as soon as they’re able to comprehend it. Girls grow up to learn how to acquire a husband. Guys grow up learning how to get the girl.
Wanna know some other things that make for a great life?
If achieving a good relationship is your goal, don’t make it your only goal. Stuff like that is out of your control, and honestly, the best friendships/relationships happen when you aren’t actively looking for it. I’ve had friends who’ve gotten suicidal over the failure of relationships. Life isn’t worth stopping for someone else. It makes me so sad that they feel their worth depends on the emotions of another person.
Everyone has worth regardless of other people. It’s just up to you to define that worth yourself. No one else can accurately express it for you. No one but you can find contentment you’re capable of.
If my relationship ever ended, I would be sad. I would be devastated for a long long time, but I would move on. Because only I can make my life worth something for me.
"LOOK AT THE DOG"